老大愛拍美女

掙雄和鳳紅有兩個兒子，老大允中36歲未婚，個性忠厚老實與爸媽同住，薪水全數交由媽媽管理，每月領8000塊錢零用錢，從出生到現在都由媽媽幫他理髮。允中最大的休閒活動是拍攝女模，零用錢大都花在外出拍照，他的電腦裡滿滿都是女模照片，卻從來沒有交過女朋友。

老二愛上塗鴉

老二松廷32歲，職業塗鴉畫家，高中時愛上塗鴉，經常半夜出門非法噴漆，家裡曾經收過法院與社區的提告通知，讓媽媽鳳紅整日忐忑不安，天天為他誦經禮佛祈求平安。

松廷在塗鴉藝術聯展表演作畫

殺死恐龍的爸爸

掙雄初為人父，對老大允中期望很高，從小對他管教很嚴厲。允中念小學時，拿了原本要買筆記本的十塊錢，買了當時正夯的玩具恐龍，回家後掙雄在允中面前，拿刀子將恐龍支解，因為他不該「挪用公款」。

這件事在鳳紅心中一直是個陰影，她相信殺死恐龍對允中幼小的心靈，造成不小的傷害。

在過去，夫妻兩人的教育方式天差地遠

賞識教育取代愛的小手

因為聽了一場賞識教育的演講，掙雄決定改變對孩子的教育方式 ，他收起處罰孩子的棍子，對個性衝動、凡事好奇的松廷採用引導的方式溝通，當松廷塗鴉惹事，且身上越來越多刺青時，採取忍受多於接受的策略；對於允中安於穩定的個性，也能換個角度欣賞他的特質。

愛的小手都被完整的保留著

當長子說他不婚

身為長子的允中因為拍照認識許多女模朋友，卻向爸媽表示不想結婚，平時配合度很高的允中竟敢挑戰男大當婚的傳統觀念，是因為小時候爸爸殺了他的恐龍嗎?

當塗鴉人成為藝術家

松廷在賞識教育下，天分與志趣得到發展，如今已是經常受邀展出畫作的塗鴉藝術家，掙雄認為當初若是嚴格管教松廷，他的天分極有可能被壓抑，不會成為今日的藝術家。

全家人一起在家門口完成了松廷英文塗鴉名字的噴漆

Introduction

If your child's behavior didn't meet your expectations, would you correct them or try to appreciate their qualities? Tsai Cheng-hsiung once ruled the roost with an iron-fisted approach to parenting; however, a fateful incident with a toy dinosaur and a serendipitous introduction to "appreciation parenting" changed him and his family forever, leading to contrasting paths for his sons, Sung-ting and Yun-chung; one a bold-as-brass graffiti artist who is financially independent, the other a reserved factory worker who gives his salary to his mom and takes a monthly allowance. In this episode, we meet Cheng-hsiung, his wife Feng-hung, and the brothers as they strive for family harmony by embracing differences. What tests has Cheng-hsiung faced on his journey of hands-off-style appreciation parenting? Why does the family find unity in the culinary realm? What role has faith played in the family’s trajectory? Let’s find out!