武術家巴士、爸爸和他的兄弟們

武術，是他的救贖

36歲的武術教練何岸榮，外號「巴士」，曾是全國武術冠軍，也是許多人眼中身手不凡、充滿力量的武術家。

他走上武術之路源自童年一段極不快樂的經歷。從小因混血外貌遭受霸凌，使他為求自保開始習武，也在武術中找到樂趣、肯定與自信心。他說，「武力存在的價值，是讓人重拾良性溝通的可貴」。

於他而言，武術從來不是為了打敗別人，而是可以用來保護自己、幫助眾人，甚至在衝突發生之時，爭取理解與溝通的可能性。然而，他怎麼也沒想到，若干年後，還有另一個更巨大的難關在等著他。

巴士平時會為武術課學生設計客製化教學課程

長照，使他心力交瘁

罹患失智症與囤積症的母親，讓他們的家逐漸被堆積如山的物品吞沒，而同住的父親則有一套自己的生活哲學，他對環境整潔與囤積問題抱持不同的看法，還主張不提升衝突，也讓家裡的衛生問題與居住狀況日漸惡化。

面對病情持續惡化的母親、健康每況愈下的父親，身為獨子的巴士始終難以與父母取得共識，長年的照顧壓力甚至讓他一度陷入鬱症和躁症，但他卻依然必須想盡辦法撐住，扛起照顧雙親的責任。

巴士在每次清理前會擬定當日計劃目標

幸好，他遇到了他和他

在這樣難熬的日子裡，幸好，巴士遇到了他的好兄弟，誼祥和瑋梃。他們陪著他一起吃飯，和他一起練武、一起工作，甚至陪伴他投入漫長的清理整頓工作。

他們一邊打掃、搬運雜物，一邊互相吐槽，在汗水與笑聲中，陪著巴士度過那些艱難的時刻，也建立起比血緣更深厚的情誼。

對巴士而言，他們的理解與陪伴，成為巴士最堅實的依靠，也讓他相信，家人，不一定是以血緣來定義。

巴士喜歡和誼祥一起回家吃飯，感受林家的家庭溫暖

面對混血身分、家庭創傷與長照困境，《誰來晚餐》這次邀請了哪位來賓？他們又將在餐桌上交流哪些人生經驗？

究竟是哪位來賓，讓巴士這麼興奮？

Introduction

A fighter who learned early that the hardest battles aren't always in the ring.
A home filled with more stuff than words.
And a family learning that letting go takes more than just strength.
In this episode, we meet Andrew, a martial arts coach who spent his childhood fighting bullies and the weight of being different. Born to a German-American father and a Taiwanese mother, home was never simple — but it was never without love. His mother Annie, once a brilliant academic, now lives with dementia and a hoarding disorder. His father Richard, a former writer, holds on to things the way he holds on to the past — as if every object carries a piece of someone he's afraid to lose. He also has strong opinions about cleanliness — he just defines it differently than most. After moving his mother into a care facility, Andrew and his father face the aftermath: a home and office buried under decades of clutter. With his martial arts brothers Shawn and Syu, they wage the Nurgle War against the chaos — not just to clean, but to heal. Through sweat, laughter, and the occasional live cockroach, they begin the slow work of clearing out the past. But the real question isn't what to throw away — it's what to keep, and who you'll become when the dust settles.
How do you make peace with a family that never quite fit the mold?
What happens when the person you're trying to save doesn't want to be saved?
And when the mess is more than just physical, what does it take to finally clear the air?
Let's dive in and find out!